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Call for Volunteers in MSP!

27 Oct

The U.S. Special Olympics summer games are going to be in Minneapolis/St. Paul next June! As many of you know, our Jacob has been in Special Olympics for many years, currently participating in softball, bowling, basketball and track.

My firm, BI WORLDWIDE, has the tremendous honor or producing the opening games this year We will need lots of volunteers to help with this awesome event. If you’re in the MSP area, I would love for you to check out the volunteer opportunities here: https://2026specialolympicsusagames.org/

A few years ago a friend wanted to watch Jacob’s softball team. He is a big sports fan. After the game I asked him what he thought. He said: “Mark, it’s possible I’ve seen better ball played before, but I’ve never seen so much joy.”

THAT’s Special Olympics!

Stories that shape tomorrow

23 Oct

If we want an inclusive future, we need inclusive stories today.


Stories are how children learn who belongs, what matters, and what’s possible. When we share books that feature people with disabilities as full, complex, wonderful human beings, we’re teaching kids that inclusion isn’t charity—it’s reality.


My hope is that these books remind readers—young and old—that every person, regardless of ability, has a story worth telling.


And sometimes, a single story can change the way we see the world.

Stories that shape tomorrow

22 Oct

If we want an inclusive future, we need inclusive stories today.
Stories are how children learn who belongs, what matters, and what’s possible. When we share books that feature people with disabilities as full, complex, wonderful human beings, we’re teaching kids that inclusion isn’t charity—it’s reality.

My hope is that these books remind readers—young and old—that every person, regardless of ability, has a story worth telling.

And sometimes, a single story can change the way we see the world.

Check out my books on Amazon, thanks!

Every Child Valued

17 Oct

When I began writing children’s books about individuals with disabilities, I had one simple goal: to help every child feel seen and valued. Too often, children with disabilities don’t see themselves reflected in stories—or if they do, their differences are treated as something to “overcome.”


These books aim to do something different. They celebrate each person’s unique abilities, humor, and humanity. When we share stories like these with kids, we plant seeds of understanding early on.
If we can help children see that everyone—regardless of ability—has worth and value, we can help grow a generation that leads with empathy.

If you’re interested, here is a link to the two books I have available: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CHTS9SX3?binding=paperback&qid=1760712609&sr=8-1&ref=dbs_dp_rwt_sb_pc_tpbk

Alberto Cairo– Helping the Disabled Find Dignity

15 Feb

So very much worth a few minutes of your time to watch this TED video. Alberto is helping people find meaning and dignity in their life. Inspiring.

Saving One Star Fish: Employing People with Disabilities

27 Oct

I had the pleasure of being part of a Rotary Club in Omaha, Nebraska. For the last several years we’ve had an annual award we call the “Able Workplace”, which recognizes employers that are doing an effective job of hiring individuals with disabilites. We started the award to shed light on a significant problem– the unemployment and underemployment of persons with disabilities.

Truth be said, as a society we do a rather terrible job of including the disabled in the workplace. According to a  study released this summer, the unemployment and underemployment of individuals with disabilities is 80% higher than the rest of the population.

Shameful.

To address this, we thought it would be worthwhile to highlight companies that are doing a good job of bringing the disabled into their place of work. We thought if we could shed some light on these companies that we could learn from them and perhaps inspire other companies.

This year we recongized a company that had hired a young man who has been diagnosed on the autism spectrum. He likes to work with computers, and the social services agency that has been working with him thought he might work out doing data entry for this company.

He initally failed the typing test they require, but he was pretty close to passing, so the supervisor invited him to come back the next week. He passed the second time and was employed.

It’s worked out wonderfully.

A couple of things worth noting. This young man, previous to being employed with this company, didn’t have a job and had been languishing at home. What was waste, that a person who could meaningfully contribute was sitting at home for months.

The other thing of note was the company president, when being notified about this recognition from our club for working with this young man, didn’t even know he had a disability! He said to me: “I’ve met him a few times in the hallway and break room, and he just seemed like everyone else around here”.

Just like everyone else.

Yes, folks with disabilities may be a bit different, but they probably have more in common with the rest of us than we realize. Just like us, they want meaningful work that adds value to their employer. They want to be paid fairly for their labor.

They want a chance.

There’s a story about a young girl on a beach throwing starfish back in the ocean. They’ll die if they aren’t returned to the ocean, and the beach is littered with them. A man walking by sees the girl. He asks her: “There are so many star fish. How can you expect to make a difference?” She picked up another star fish, threw it back in the ocean and turned to him and said: “I made a difference for that one.”

None of us can help everyone who is disabled find meaningful employment. But the company we honored this week made a difference for one person. For one good person who just needed a opportunity to show their talents.

Who else out there is ready to make a difference for one “star fish”?

(photo courtesy of stock.exchng)

Disability Doesn’t Mean Inability—Paul’s Story

18 Aug

In junior high I spent many a Saturday morning in a bowling league at our local alley. On the lanes adjacent to our league was a league for individuals with disabilities. They were a generally likable bunch. We often said our hellos and cheered for each other when someone did well. They also were kind in consoling me when I threw yet another embarrassing gutter ball.

One of the regulars in that bowling league was Paul. I don’t believe Paul could keep score in bowling, could hold a conversation beyond a few basic words, or read the sentence I’m writing. Paul had a profound cognitive disability.

But there is one thing I can attest to about Paul—he was a extraordinary bowler.

Paul was a delight to watch. His approach to the pins was graceful and smooth, and the ball seemed to explode out of his hand toward its target. When his ball hit the pins there was a deafening sound, a shatter, which echoed through the whole place. It seemed like the pins knew better than resist, and went scurrying to the gutter.

One Saturday Paul was really “on a roll”. He bowled one strike, then another, yet another, and then another. I noticed several people watching this display. Nobody cared Paul had a disability. What counted was that Paul could take up a bowling ball and perform a difficult task, and do so with excellence. And his audience found it worth their time to watch his handiwork.

I’m grateful for folks in that league. And I’m particularly grateful for Paul, because he taught me an exceptionally important lesson—disability doesn’t mean inability.

Yes, Paul was disabled. But he also had a talent.

He could bowl, could do so superbly, better than most. And I’d bet there are other things Paul could do. I’d wager each of the members of that league had some skill or ability that could be put to good use.

I think of Paul as we struggle to hire individuals with disabilities. The unemployment and underemployment of persons with disabilities is staggeringly high, several times the rate of the so-called able-bodied population. And according to government statistics this community has been penalized even more in the recession, losing jobs at a higher rate and when employed at a far lower wage.

I wonder if one of the problems we have in hiring people like Paul is because we only see disability; we don’t look for or see the talents or skills or potential that may be there.

We only see what the Paul’s of the world can’t do, versus what they can do.

A car dealership I know hired a young man who is on the autism spectrum. As is the case with many individuals with this disability, he was a compulsive type, who liked things neat and orderly and clean. The dealership trained him to be a detailer, preparing cars for customers. After a few weeks on the job his manager remarked: “He’s the best detailer we’ve ever had. Customers love how he takes care of their car.”

Another company I know has been hiring disabled employees for years. Compared to peer groups this cohort of disabled employees  stay longer, are absent less, and even use less health benefits.  And the cost, on average, to make “reasonable accommodations” so these employees can be successful contributors? About a hundred bucks.

Kudos to these employers.

They look beyond disability and see an opportunity where good people can contribute, can add value, and like my bowling pal Paul, can do something very, very well. I’d bet there are many more opportunities for employers to secure the talents of folks who may be disabled, but who can, like Paul, bowl a perfect game.

Debunking Myths of Employing People With Disabilities

19 Aug

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A new brochure from the US Department of Labor provides useful information about hiring individuals with disabilities. It does a nice job of  factually reporting certain “myths”, including that reasonable accommodations mandated by the ADA law are costly (they aren’t, most cost nothing) and that you have to learn a different way of managing the disabled (you don’t, just manage well).

You can find a link to the brochure at Examiner.com.

Expectation + Opportunity = Full Participation

17 Aug

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From Aspen Publishers:

“Expectation + Opportunity = Full Participation” is the official theme for October’s National Disability Employment Awareness Month (NDEAM), announced the US Department of Labor (DOL) on June 26, 2009. NDEAM is intended to urge employers, as they seek to fill positions, to embrace the richness of America’s diversity by considering the talents of all workers, including workers with disabilities.

Bravo for this unique theme, one that I do hope highlights what individuals with disabilities to do to contribute productively to our places of work.

If you think that hiring the disabled is to hard or will be too expensive or won’t address some of your current staffing challenges… think again.

Thank You, Mrs. Eunice Kennedy Shriver

15 Aug

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One of the great advocates for the disabled, Eunice Kennedy Shriver, died this week. Her accomplishments are detailed in a post from The Examiner.com— here are a few highlights:

Eunice Kennedy Shriver 

died on Tuesday leaving behind a legacy that rivals that of her famous politician brothers.Not only was she the visionary behind the Special Olympics, but her lifelong advocacy for the mentally disabled also laid the groundwork for the single most important children’s rights legislation in education: The Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA).

Shriver’s passion for the disabled grew from her close relationship with her intellectually challenged older sister, Rosemary. After witnessing her sister’s sharp decline and placement into a mental heath facility following a lobotomy, Shriver was set on a course to change the lives of the disabled worldwide.

If it were not for her tireless efforts, many disabled would like still be holed away in institutions, with no education or opportunity to live in the community.

As the father of a special needs child, I am grateful for her leadership in raising the profile of individuals with disabilities and helping us learn that the disabled can make meaningful contributions to our world and live joyful lives.

We do have a long way to go, but it is hard to imagine how much further behind we would be without Mrs. Shriver.